By their very nature, human beings are so capricious, so complex, so delightfully contradictory, that they deserve not only our consideration, but our reconsideration—and our unwavering determination to withhold our opinion until we have engaged with them in every possible setting at every possible hour.
This may be my favorite quote from the entire book. We live in a world where you can have a 10 minute conversation with someone and that person will, within minutes, formulate any number of assumptions about you under the belief they know enough about you to make a final judgement of your character.