Tom and I had done pretty well dividing chores fairly when it was just the two of us. But once we had kids, the scales started tipping, and though we’d tried to right them every now and then, usually after I’d lost it, I always ended up feeling like I was in charge of everything. Forget having it all, it felt like I was doing it all. Even though we both worked full-time and earned about the same amount of money.
