This “what was heard” versus “what was meant” coaching mismatch is surprisingly common: Coaching What Was Heard What Was Meant Be more confident. Give the impression that you know things even if you don’t. Have the confidence to say you don’t know when you don’t know. Don’t be so picky about whom you date. You’re not a great catch, so you don’t deserve a great catch. Don’t make the mistakes I’ve made. Don’t end up like me. I wish you weren’t so darn opinionated. Don’t be interesting to talk to. Be apathetic and bland. You don’t listen to me or anyone else. It’s exhausting. Evaluations can be
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