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The 10 emotions of power are:
Love and warmth Appreciation and gratitude Curiosity Excitement and passion Determination Flexibility Confidence Cheerfulness Vitality Contribution
“You are the source of all your emotions; you are the one who creates them.
Whatever you think about, that’s what you remember. Memory is the residue of thought. ~Daniel T. Willingham
“daily dozen” because, as he says, “You will never change your life until you change something you do daily.” Here are the keys: Attitude Priorities Health Family Thinking Commitment Finances Faith Relationships Generosity Values Growth
Attitude Priorities Health Family Thinking Commitment Finances Faith Relationships Generosity Values Growth
we only remember what we think about.
If you concentrate, get the name, make it meaningful, and
connect it to the person, you will remember it for the short term. To make the name stick in your long-term memory, however, you have to continue using it.
Art in Memory
Interest level is measured by how much you remember.
creative remembering and becoming more associated and personally involved with the information.
1. Create a Vision Your inner vision and your energy are connected. If you wake up in the morning and focus on all the bad things
level will be low. If you wake up and imagine exciting possibilities and focus on all the great things that you get to do, your energy level will lift. Where your attention goes, your energy flows. David Campbell said, “Discipline is remembering what you want.” The more reasons you have to do something, the better your inner movie will be, and the more energy you will create to do it. If your excuses are high and your reasons are low you will have no discipline to start. If your reasons are high and your excuses are low, you will have lots of motives, and motive in action creates motivation.
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2. Make a Decision Change happens only when you make a true decision to change. A true decision means you will not allow for any other possibility. Make a commitment to yourself that this is the way you are going to live your life. Of course, for anything to happen in your life you have to schedule it. Decide to make it part of your routine. 3. Don’t Listen to Your Feelings Elbert Hubbard said, “Self-discipline is the ability to make yourself do what you should do, when you should do it, whether you feel like ...
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doing it—because they say they will do it tomorrow. The problem is that when tomorrow comes, the same loop repeats itself. In the same way, if you say, “I just don’t feel like it,” a loop closes because you have tricked yourself into thinking that you will do it when you do feel like it. These pictures and voices, which we control, create our feelings. If you want emotional mastery, learn to take control of these pictures, movies, and voices that run your mind. Some people say, “I have to listen to my inner voice because it guides my intuition.” You can listen to your intuition or feelings
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a discipline, these feelings only get in the way. When it comes time to floss your teeth, you don’t have to consult your intuition, you just do it. When you have to exercise, you don’t have to listen to your feelings, you just do it. William James said, “The more we struggle and debate, the more we reconsider and delay, the less likely we are to act.” Schedule a time in the day for memory training and practice—whether you feel like it or not. 4. Daily Action If you want to develop a habit, the only way to do it is by practicing daily. Only by consistently practicing your discip...
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longer. Some people think that once the 21 days are up the brain will take over. Then after 21 days they give up and wait for their brain to do the rest. Self-discipline requires you to make decisions daily. Self-discipline requires you to start fresh every day. Every day is a new day. If you need incentive, tell yourself you don’t have to practice this skill for the rest of your life—just for today. I believe that life does not reward idleness. If you put your arm in a sling for a week you would start to lose the use of many of your major muscles. Your brain is made of flesh and blood like
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If you’re hoping to harvest a life of great deeds, remember you first have to plant some great seeds. ~Denis Waitley
Memory skills are an important tool in your self-improvement arsenal.
May you never forget what is worth remembering, nor ever remember what is best forgotten. ~Irish blessing

