Feedback Containment Chart What is this about? What isn’t this about? Whether this person still loves me. Whether I’m lovable, whether I’ll find love. Whether I’m as productive as I might be on the publications front. Whether I’m a good clinician, a smart colleague, a valued team member. Whether my first YouTube video was as good as I wanted it to be. Whether I will ever make a video that gets positive response. Whether I’m patient with the kids in the evenings. Whether my kids know I love them, and whether I’m patient much of the time.