When you are lustful, you are asking for sex, you are starved. Then the whole mind is just planning for sex. Then your touch and other things are just seductions. But the deep message is, “I am hankering for your body.” No, that moment is not the right moment—at least not for one month. When you are feeling very happy and contented and there is no need for any other’s body, then touch her body in a very prayerful mood, and she will be very happy. She will be able to see that you are not asking for the body. That is the way you can help her to come out of her condemnatory, anti-body attitude.
