And remember the third thing: when the orgasm has happened and you both are so full of joy, then the last part of it is still to be completed—the appendix, the afterplay. The woman has given you so much joy, the man has given you so much joy, yet without even saying thank you to each other you go to sleep, with no gratitude. The only way to show your thankfulness is to play with the woman’s body again—afterplay—and let the woman play with your body. . . .
