The looks this mother and son exchanged were by far the strongest part of the communication. As Bernstein wrote of working class speech, it is not only that what is not said is more important than what is said, it is how it is not said (1971). Vicky is teaching Rashad something as crucial to working class success as the middle class ability to articulate and debate is to middle class culture. She is telling him, implicitly, to tune in—to her, to others, to what is happening around him. Working class speech and culture imply, they do not spell things out. Children are taught to pay attention to
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