Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are

by J. Jennifer Matthews

The fact is, we can't improve and improve, and finally get to ourselves. It won’t work and it’s not necessary. We are already ourselves.

Fantasy is exciting. It is also insular. It consists of the impossible project of trying to take a break from the intimacy of reality. The major purpose of our fantasies is usually to delay or even prevent real intimacy!