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Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are

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"Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are" is perfect for anyone who is curious about nonduality's impact on life as it is lived every day. How can a clear understanding of nondual philosophy change how we experience our lives?

"Radically Condensed Instructions" helps us use Nonduality's basic theory - that nothing truly exists outside of the 'here and now' - to radically deepen our practice of present-moment awareness or "being here, now!" When we truly understand that open and clear Awareness is really all there is, we can make an uncompromising commitment to the present moment without the distractions of distorted thinking, artificial comparisons and impossible ideals.

73 pages, Kindle Edition

First published February 26, 2011

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29 reviews1 follower
February 16, 2023
i understood or have read/seen every reference except for one — who the hell is foghorn leghorn
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Author 5 books282 followers
December 15, 2023
A wonderfully engaging gem of a book that questions the concept of 'self', one that will stay with me, and that I plan to reread again very soon!
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94 reviews16 followers
February 18, 2020
Nice, concise explanation of the amount inexplicable. ;)

Nothing I hadn’t heard before, but beautifully stated. Certainly a great starting point for wrapping your head around the present.
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119 reviews3 followers
January 15, 2023
The most accessible version of this discussion that I’ve read.
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320 reviews3 followers
November 1, 2021
Not quite on the pulse…

Seemed to be running around it circles but never arriving…I was looking or waiting for an in depth ah ha moment but it didn’t do it for me.
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12 reviews
November 14, 2024
Interesting little book non-duality with some beautiful quotes. For example:

“We cannot get anything out of life. There is no outside where we could take this thing to. There is no little pocket situated outside of life, to which we could steal life’s provisions and squirrel them away. The life of this moment has no outside.”
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166 reviews4 followers
December 27, 2024
Why did I read this? It’s 72 pages, and I was at 49 books for the year in a competition with my better half. Nipun cheated with short books, so I did too. Its message: stop trying to get something out of life. I wasn’t impressed.
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117 reviews
December 10, 2019
"Alienating desire can obscure our felt contact with the mystery of life. Take getting a new, ‘perfect’ partner. Aren’t we giddy with joy? The reason we are giddy with joy is because joy is our genuine nature. We just abandoned it for a little while because we were busy bothering ourselves with fantasies. We can experience profound joy if we give ourselves permission to. Instead we look outside ourselves for a perfect situation. And it is the act of looking that takes us away from our happiness."

"How do we pull the illusion that there is some abiding and intractable “problem” with our lives, out of our lives? I would not be the first to suggest we do this by realizing that our sense of problem hangs on our sense of being a self who “has” a problem."

"Our true ‘I’ is an open, empty ‘field’ which allows experience to manifest freely. When we no longer believe there is a self that must transcend itself and its circumstances, we have achieved the only real freedom there is – freedom from our illusory sense of bondage and confinement to the adventures of a self."

”Often we get very interested in studying ourselves, without pausing to notice that we have arbitrarily defined one part of experience as our self, and not another. To give a simple example, a sunny day usually puts us in a good mood, at least in New England. And I’ve heard Scandinavians practically go manic! Is there any reason to separate our good mood from the sunlight itself? Is there any absolute reason to say that our good mood is somehow the property of a self, and the sunlight is somehow other? Can we not imagine a language in which ‘sunlight’ refers to being in a good mood, and not metaphorically? I believe there is no great reason to maintain the concept of self beyond its obvious usefulness as a designator. The ‘self’ as a metaphysical concept, or a concept that would set itself up to be a great, absolute truth, is much too high-maintenance. It simply cannot be made to exist beyond our everyday attempts at self-definition and self-description."

"When we are ‘selving,’ we are abandoning what we actually see, hear, and feel (which is always dissolving, always falling apart) in favor of concepts, which hold together nicely, but which are mere conventions. When we just look at experience; when we observe it closely, we do not discover any selves. In fact, when we observe experience carefully and non-selectively, it does slowly dawn on us that no one is home."

"...all experiences are experiences of awakening. Every experience points to the truth if you look at it closely enough."

"There is no hidden component to experience. There is no mystery anywhere to be uncovered. It is all the mystery. And it is right here, already uncovered. Its existence co-arises with, and is the same as, its manifestation. Its ‘hereness."

"We could have the biggest problem going, and I mean the biggest neurotic obsession imaginable, and still it is all nothing but present experience. This understanding is completely liberating, once we get used to it."
2 reviews
March 1, 2023
The book succinctly summarizes “Awakening” is knowing “Now” is all there is.

What really drove it home is the philosophy of AA. Just as promising oneself of staying sober for one month or one year could feel insurmountable for an alcoholic, just take your present moment and live it fully without expectation of something that is outside yourself and over the horizon.
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329 reviews64 followers
November 6, 2017
Nice little read on awareness.

Enjoyed this little read on awareness and the idea of coming back to the mystery of the present moment. May be of interest for those into nonduality and awareness teachings. I liked the advice at the end regarding addictions and a resolution.
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514 reviews5 followers
April 27, 2022
Why waste time? This is brief but to the point. Instruction for how to live in existentially. Consciousness and awareness help construct our own realities. "Experience is beautifully, sacredly and non-conceptionally perfect, in this present moment, now"
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205 reviews11 followers
October 3, 2025
This funny little book was mentioned in Four Thousand Weeks. It's on nonduality. The title joke seems to be that usually people say even more, writing on this topic, when arguably not much needs to be said. There are still pretty many words here, and many of them are "poignancy."

My personal philosophy has some affinity with this nondualism stuff. My starting point is that experience is the only thing we have direct experience of. Nondualists seem to argue that this should be both starting point and ending point. I'm all about living in the moment and all, but I tend to feel that just because we can't prove things exist, it doesn't mean we shouldn't believe that they do. But it's okay to grant that this is a leap.

There's some cute discussion of how trying too hard to live in the moment is a good way to take yourself out of the moment. I think this is kind of like falling asleep: trying to make yourself fall asleep is stressful. You have to relax, and again, you don't relax by trying hard to relax. Also like meditating, where you aim to let thoughts come and let them go, not by trying hard to do this, but by not trying. So we have a "philosophy of not-philosophy," and a perfect practitioner doesn't need to read this book. I'm not sure the comparison is perfect, but it reminds me of Star Wars: "I don't know; fly casual."

Thinking about this more, I wonder if what Four Thousand Weeks is really trying to offer is a time management of not-time-management. The idea that you shouldn't be trying to manage time, but that you should be living and doing things without worrying about the time management. I think there's something here: getting in the flow of doing something, not focusing on planning but on doing, etc. This feels like a better interpretation of Four Thousand Weeks than I had previously given it. (Maybe better than it really deserves...)

Anyway, sure, cute short book.
47 reviews
December 18, 2023
I seem to vaguely recall that Wittgenstein’s criticism of most philosophical riddles was that they were simply issues of language. I kept thinking of that as I was reading this. It is a knotty read. I couldn’t decide if I was struggling because I already live as the writer prescribes, or if it was just cobblers and I have no idea what they’re on about.
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1,259 reviews12 followers
May 27, 2025
Read this slowly over time. This is one of those books that sneaks up on you, it is dense but you find yourself grabbing on to a sentence or an idea and then finding it percolating through your day.

As always, my reviews are a reflection of my experience reading the book and not meant as genuine critique.
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34 reviews8 followers
January 1, 2023
Losing ourselves..

The “I” as a non-existent entity is clearly explained.

The Hindu scriptures described this state in a mere 3 word pronouncement : tat-tvam-asi or I am that.

Well written.
39 reviews10 followers
January 6, 2023
If you have read enough books on philosophy, this book is great, because it feels like reading all the best quotes from various books (maybe that is the point of this book!). But as a standalone, it felt incoherent, though there were a lot of lines that left me thinking for a long time.
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July 5, 2023
Great read

I have been reading Enlightenment books for 30 years and this is the most concise and realistic book I have read.
Very clear. Do your self a favour. Buy this book !!!
And no I am not getting paid by the publisher or author for this review.
Warm regards
Thomas
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413 reviews2 followers
November 9, 2023
Quirky and thought-provoking

I think a reading of this essay would benefit from prior grounding in philosophy, but I still enjoyed feeling lost and confused, which I gather was more or less the point of the essay anyway!
7 reviews
November 12, 2024
3.5 stars, a little bit tricky partially because of the complexity of the content but mostly because of the writing style. Lots of repetition and unnecessarily pedantic at times. Overall I like the message even if it was a little confusing
79 reviews5 followers
April 29, 2020
2D Point

Short AND to the point. Have a sit and catch a quick book....and, don't feel badly about reading it again.
It isn't just a toss away!
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74 reviews1 follower
February 8, 2021
Excellent Read

This book helped me understand nonduality. Although, I've listened to podcasts and read other books on the subject, they left some quandary on it.
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113 reviews1 follower
April 27, 2021
Ugh

Just when I thought it had merit, the author goes into too much philosophy, taking away the purpose of the book. You could read about 30 pages and get it, the rest is rubbish!
13 reviews
February 6, 2022
Best ever book on consciousness

Best ever book on consciousness, highly recommend to anyone curious about the mind and experience, or if you have a meditation practice
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46 reviews5 followers
January 15, 2023
‘The idea that we are selves who pursue is a very I’ll-advised kind of fantasy. The notion that we are selves pursuing experience sucks the sense of wonder out of life.’
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133 reviews1 follower
March 28, 2023
The present moment is perfect in that it is a perfect mystery. Experience is beautifully, sacredly, and non-conceptually perfect, in this present moment, now.
188 reviews
June 6, 2023
I Love This Title

In this book we learn that we don't need to spend our lives pursuing the next amazing experience. Put simply WE are experience.
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111 reviews
July 3, 2023
Concise and thought-provoking. The author has a conversational style that is easy to read and approachable. While the topic is more cerebral, the tone of the book is practical (without irony).
53 reviews1 follower
December 30, 2023
Short book that explains in short and logical manner the value of living in the present moment.
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Author 4 books33 followers
January 12, 2024
A beautiful, concise, often lighthearted explanation of nondual philosophy and the illusion of self. I’ll be returning to this book again and again.
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