Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

by Mark Manson

Pre-Approach Signals - Non-Accidental Eye Contact: When in doubt, assume it’s not accidental. Humans are programmed to look at and focus on whatever they’re either curious about or what they find attractive. If she’s looking at you even 10% more than the average stranger, then she’s at least somewhat curious/interested in you. I make a point to approach every woman who makes non-accidental eye contact with me, and it serves me well. - Smiling: If eye contact means she’s interested, this means “you better come talk to me!” - She Approaches You: This goes without saying, although a lot of guys are so oblivious, they even miss this. If a woman approaches you, even if it’s to ask the time, about the weather, for directions, or whatever, chances are she has some interest in talking to you. - Proximity: This one is subtle, but the more you work on your lifestyle, body language, and style, the more of these you will get. It’s when a woman places herself conspicuously near you when she doesn’t have to. For instance, let’s say you’re sitting on a bus and an attractive woman gets on. The entire bus is empty, yet she comes over and sits across from you. This could mean she wants you to talk to her. Some other examples are when a woman comes and stands near you in a store or shop looking at nothing in particular for a long amount of time. Conversation Signals - Excessive Smiling/Laughing: This is subjective and will require some judgment, but sometimes you will notice one girl smiling...

A stunning woman I once worked with came up and asked me if I wanted to grab a cup of coffee. My response? I held up the half drunk cup of coffe I already had and said, "No thanks," shook the cup, "I'm good." Didn't realize my mistake until I was half way home.