In short, they’re going to learn to talk back to you, and when they’re not being fun, that talk can look like defiance, arguments, and disrespect. And that’s the big red button on the chest of most Christian parents—disrespect. Parents do all they can to keep the children from ever pushing this button. They know how crazy this makes them feel inside, so it becomes a priority to teach that no one is disrespectful to the parents, ever!