Even in situations much more mundane than David’s, letting go of the emotions and identity issues wrapped up in a difficult conversation can be one of the most challenging things you do. Difficult conversations operate at the core of our being — where the people and the principles we care about most intersect with our self-image and self-esteem. Letting go, at heart, is about how to handle with skill and grace not having a difficult conversation. Of course, the better you become at engaging difficult conversations, the less there will be for you to let go of. One key to improving is having
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