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Kara King
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December 28 - December 28, 2022
Has a car Has his own place Nice body Kind Would make a good Father
For instance, if you’re 18, you might not expect the person you’re looking for to have his own place;
If a man doesn’t meet a majority of your requirements, especially the important ones, let him go!!! Even if you like the guy a lot. I know this may be hard to do, but remember to control your emotions.
only fools rush in. If you have been giving up your love, heart, sex or emotion too easily; then you’ve been making it way too easy for men.
When you’re single you should ALWAYS have two, three, or even four guys that you are seeing at one time.
It’s just a game. Games are meant to be fun. Start
You just missed out
on all the good men, because you’re focusing on this one guy.
Help yourself. If you need to fix someone, fix yourself. Don’t waste this
Possibly, you can’t even bring him around your parents or friends. If that’s the case, there is definitely something wrong with him!
This is because either you’re obsessed with fixing him, winning him over, or you’re hoping and waiting for him to change.
There are two reasons beyond our inability to control our emotions, and beyond our low self-esteem as to why we put up with crap from men. Number one, we want immediate gratification.
The second reason is we don’t want to be single.
From this moment forward, you’re no longer settling for less.
he was with. You catch him cheating, even if it wasn’t sex. Even “talking” with another girl inappropriately is cheating. He knows it’s wrong, but he doesn’t care. Ask yourself, if he caught you doing the same thing, would he be upset? If so, it’s cheating. He doesn’t have anything to offer. He doesn’t have a car, a job, he’s not in school, or he’s a grown ass man that lives with his mom. He shows no signs of ever growing up and being responsible. He has three kids with three different women…you better run away fast, or you’ll be next!
He doesn’t take care of his kids the way a man should. (Don't make excuses for him.) He never buys you anything. Not even flowers on your birthday or a present at Christmas time. Or, if he does buy you something, it’s a cheap piece of shit that he bought out of guilt or because you told him he’d better buy you something. He’s in and out of jail, repeatedly. Give it up.... He’s a drug addict. Has he stolen money from your purse? (*A note about drug addicts: don’t pity your addicted mate. Addiction is a cruel disease, but it can be overcome. If you require him to be drug free and he can’t or
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He treats you badly or is disrespectful to you. He doesn’t label you as his girlfriend or he lies to people about the status of your relationship. When a man loves a woman, he wants to show her off, not hide her. He doesn’t bring you around his friends or he treats...
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worst because he knows what he’s doing.
There are a lot more of them than you may think.
I’m sorry to say it, but if your man is doing any of the things listed in this chapter, don’t fool yourself. That kind of man isn’t interested in you as a person. He’s only interested in getting what he wants, when he wants
this book does a great service to its readers by helping them identify the signs of a person taking advantage of them.
“Life Code” will tell you the honest and ugly truth about the users, abusers, losers, and overall “bad guys” that are out there. What I like best about the book is that he reveals the secrets of how they think. It will definitely give you a deeper insight into the subject.
You must be attracted to the way a man treats you, before you are attracted
ANYTHING else about him.
I’m not saying a guy has to be ugly. I’m not advising you to avoid dating good-looking people. That’s not at all what I’m saying. There are plenty of fine men in this world that will treat you like a princess.
right. If you don’t learn to be attracted to the way a man treats you, over all other things, then you are likely to get hurt over and over again.
He calls when he says he will. He doesn’t stand you up to go with his friends. He isn’t caught telling little lies. He wants to spend his time with you. He picks up the phone when you call.
can depend on him. He helps you with your problems. He doesn't disappear. He’s waiting to have sex. He isn’t pressuring you into sex. He’s good to his Mom and/or kids. He’s good to your Mom. (Respectful, courteous and helpful.) Yes, these kinds of men do exist! They aren’t extinct. They are out there. I promise.
treats the women in his life. A Mama’s boy can be a bad thing,
but in some cases it can be a good thing.
You’ll always be happy.
If you have a man telling you he loves you, but his actions are saying something different, then it’s time to realize that he’s lying to you.
Love is an action and when a person really loves you, they’ll show it. Just like when you love a person, you don’t hurt them.
He wants to spend time with you. He brings surprises for you or your kids. He takes you out.
armor, but they’ll only do it for one special girl.
Be appreciative and give him some praise for helping you.
Nothing turns a man on more than a woman with a life of her own. A
want what they can’t have. You have to be so preoccupied with your own life that
They want the opposite of that. They want a woman who’s so busy with her own life, she doesn’t even want a man.
Cats don't chase dogs. Dogs chase cats. Remember that.
When a man sees a woman with no time to waste, he’ll cut to the chase.
He’ll try to impress you, so you’ll want to spend your time with him. Instead of it being the other way around, where you’re the one trying to get him to spend his time with you. He’ll want your time, because it’s not easy to
To be that type of woman, you need to have your own life.
“No one is more important than me.” “I don’t have time for games.” “When you’re with me, you better make it worth my time, or I won’t waste my time with you the next time I’m free.” “I have a lot to offer.” “I require respect because I respect myself enough to make a better life for myself.” “I can take care of myself and I don’t need a man.” “If I choose to be with you, it is because I wanted to
Where do you see yourself in one year? Where do you see yourself in five years? Where do you see yourself in ten years? What is your dream career? How much money do you want to earn per year? How do you envision your future? What steps will it take to get there?
Make sure your goals are practical and achievable, but don’t be afraid to set big goals. Now write out 1-year goals, 5-year goals, and 10-year goals. Write out what kind of work it will require to get
This makes you the clingy, overbearing girl and it pushes men away.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE TO GO ON A SIMPLE DATE WITH THEM.
Online Dating Is Important To You For Several Reasons: You’re in control because the men are seeking you out. You have tons of options.
Men don’t get emotionally involved. They keep their emotions at a distance and keep them hidden away.
