The Power of the P*ssy - How to Get What You Want From Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More!: Dating and Relationship Advice for Women (Dating and Relationship ... Respect, Commitment, and More! Book 1)

by Kara King

Your commitment to follow through and your courage to change will directly reflect your success.

Learning to use the power of controlling your emotions may possibly be your biggest challenge because it forces you to go against what you’re automatically inclined to do, which is to be emotional. Men are sexual by nature and

We are all different, but inside we operate the same. We’re emotional creatures.

You must learn to control your emotions.

It is necessary, however, to become aware of your emotions and their ability to control your actions. Once we’re aware of this fact, then we can control our actions by controlling our emotions.

When you master the ability to control your

emotions, you take away a man’s power over you. While it may be technically “wrong” to mask and control

They know how to manipulate us, lie to us, cheat on us, hurt us, use us, play with our minds and tear out our hearts. Even worse is their ability to keep us around, even after

These men know how to use a woman’s emotions for their own personal gain, whatever that may be. It could be sex, money, clothes or simply a place to live.

There are a lot of men out there that will do and say anything just to get what they need.

you must be aware of the fact that there are a lot more bad guys than you think and they’re everywhere.

You must be wise to this fact.

if you want to be a strong woman who doesn’t have issues with men, it’s a huge mistake.

The only way you’re going to get ahead of the game is to get a grip on your feelings.

know who’s boss.

We are women, hard-wired to think with our hearts.

Allowing our emotions to influence our actions and decisions is what gets us into trouble.

At the beginning of relationships and at the end of relationships. I want to start with the hardest one: the end of relationships.

You grovel, you cry, you think, think, think and then think some more.

side can “feel better.”

That’s why you can’t think or act logically when it comes to leaving a man that you love but you know is no good for you. Here’s how you can get the strength…

It’s easy to notice when this is happening because you know deep in your heart that you’re making a bad decision.

easy to recognize when the emotions are making you a fool. The hard part is once you recognize it, you have to control it.

you can control how you respond to them. Who’s running the show here, your emotions or you?

You must stop yourself! You can say to yourself, “I know I’m terribly sad right now and there’s nothing I want more than to be back with him. But, I realize that’s my emotions talking and I’ve decided that this time I’m not going to do what my emotions want me to do.”

The Feelings Are Still There and They Really Hurt

Do whatever it takes to get your mind focused on something other than him.

Recognize that because you’re a woman, you’re naturally inclined to react on emotion. (There is nothing wrong with that fact, we just need to recognize that we can greatly benefit from knowing when and how to control it.) Now that you know this, never make decisions based on your emotions!!! Recognize the emotions/feelings/pain will still be there. You’re not going to give into it this time, because you are in control. You’re going to give your emotions the time they

need to heal. If you have a wound on your knee, do you keep picking at it? No. You wrap it up and

leave it alone until it heals. Your emotions are no different. Most importantly, occupy yourself while you heal. You’ll still think of him, but you’ll b...

Don’t allow your emotions to put you into a position to be used or hurt.

DO NOT CALL HIM, DO NOT CONTACT HIM, LEAVE HIM ALONE FOREVER. He screwed

It’s very hard to get over rejection or a broken heart.

toxic relationship to work, you will still feel the

Men are a lot less complex than we are. They want you because you have a vagina. They

Filler dates are a tool to help you recuperate from a broken heart by taking your mind off the wound as it heals.

Write down the things you hated about him. From the big things like, “he’s a liar and a cheater” to the small things like, “the mole on his back.”

Eventually, you’ll get to a point where you’ll sit back and laugh, wondering what you ever saw in this lying, mole-filled asshole.

Controlling your emotions is also important when you meet or like a new guy.

If a guy likes you, he will eventually begin to pursue you. If he doesn’t, then he doesn’t like you. No excuses. Don’t pursue men. Control those emotions that urge you to go after men. It’s okay to flirt. Just don’t pursue.

Also remember to be a little bit patient. It may take him longer to approach you, than it would

Cats Don’t Chase Dogs where I go into much more detail about this subject.

Women should not have to put a lot effort into getting a man’s attention. If you’re not getting the responses, calls, texts, or attention you were hoping for, within a reasonable time frame, then forget about

There’s a book called, He’s Just Not That Into You. I suggest EVERY single woman read this book. It helps with grasping the fact that if a guy isn’t calling, texting, flirting, or actively pursuing you; then he's just not that into you.

Here are three reasons why you must control your emotions when meeting a new guy or in the beginning of your relationship:

Reason #1:

Men hate it when they can’t see into your head. If you control your emotions for a new guy, you’re making him wonder if you like him or not. When he can’t figure it out, he’ll work harder. Suddenl...

Reason #2:

Men only want you when you don’t want them. It’s all about the thrill of the hunt for a man. I know you’ve heard this before and probably think it’s just stupid bullshit games.

Men aren’t like that. Men want to hunt. The thrill of the hunt gets a man interested much faster than calling him and leaving cute comments on his Facebook page. That’s just the way it is. The sooner you accept this,