To Sell is Human: The Surprising Truth About Persuading, Convincing, and Influencing Others
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Find the one percent.
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percent.” Don’t get lost in the crabgrass of details, he urged us. Instead, think about the essence of what you’re exploring—the one percent that gives life to the other ninety-nine.
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The catchers took passion, wit, and quirkiness
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ones. If the catcher categorized the pitcher as “uncreative” in the first few minutes, the meeting was essentially over even if it had not actually ended.
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The most valuable sessions were those in which the catcher “becomes so fully engaged by a pitcher
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“Once the catcher feels like a creative collaborator, the odds of rejection diminish,”
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isn’t necessarily to move others immediately to adopt your idea. The purpose is to offer something so compelling that it begins a conversation,
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The McKinsey Global Institute estimates that the typical American hears or reads more than one hundred thousand words every day.
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six promising successors to the elevator pitch—
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The question pitch
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“Are you better off now than you were four years ago?”
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when the underlying arguments were weak, presenting them in the interrogative form had a negative effect.9
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3. The rhyming pitch
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acquit.” The jury exonerated Simpson—and one reason was Cochran’s
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Participants rated the aphorisms in the left column as far more accurate than those in the right column,
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4. The subject-line pitch
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every e-mail we send is a pitch. It’s a plea for someone’s attention and an invitation to engage.
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People were quite likely to “read emails that directly affected their work.” No
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they had moderate levels of uncertainty about the contents, i.e. they were ‘curious’ what the messages were about.”
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People opened useful messages for extrinsic reasons; they had something to gain or lose. They opened the other messages for intrinsic reasons; they were just curious. Ample research has shown that trying to add intrinsic motives on top of extrinsic ones often backfires.16
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that subject lines should be “ultra-specific.”
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5. The Twitter pitch
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6. The Pixar pitch
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Once upon a time ______________________________. Every day, _______________. One day _________________________. Because of that, ___________________. Because of that, _______________________. Until finally ___________________.   Take, for example, the plot of Finding Nemo:
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For example, keep a pitch notebook. With a small notepad or on your smartphone, jot down the great pitches you hear as you’re moving through the world—
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short video messages by e-mail, which you can do almost effortlessly, and usually for free, on QuickTime
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A pecha-kucha presentation contains twenty slides, each of which appears on the screen for twenty seconds. That’s it. The rules are rigid, which is the point.
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Since its introduction in 2003, pecha-kucha has spread like a benevolent virus and metamorphosed into an international movement.
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www.pecha-kucha.org.
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Go first if you’re the incumbent, last if you’re the challenger. In competitive sales presentations, where a series of sellers
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Granular numbers are more credible than coarse numbers.
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is Cathy Salit. Back in 1970, she dropped out of eighth grade and started her own school on Manhattan’s Upper West Side.
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When he’s finished, I have to respond. But not yet. I begin counting down the seconds in my head. Fifteen. Fourteen. Thirteen. No breaking eye contact. Twelve. Eleven. This is agonizing. Ten. When will the madness end?
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her ability to listen without listening for is what allows the scene to move forward.
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“ ‘Yes and’ isn’t a technique,” Salit says. “It’s a way of life.”
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If you train your ears to hear offers, if you respond to others with “Yes and,” and if you always try to make your counterpart look good, possibilities will emerge.
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Epictetus said, “Nature hath given men one tongue but two ears, that we may hear from others twice as much as we speak.”
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Sales trainers, take note. This five-minute reading exercise more than doubled production. The stories made the work personal; their contents made it purposeful. This is what it means to serve: improving another’s life and, in turn, improving the world. That’s the lifeblood of service and the final secret to moving others.
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over, will the world be a better place than when you began? Servant selling is the essence of moving others today.
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Upserving means doing more for the other person than he expects or you initially intended, taking the extra steps that transform a mundane interaction into a memorable experience.
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“Why not always act as if the other guy is doing the favor?”
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