Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

by Peter W. Murphy

It takes tremendous pressure off your shoulders when you know you can approach someone and talk for a few minutes to see if you have a good match and if you don't it’s perfectly acceptable to move on and talk to someone else. Some people don't look at it like this and think if they approach someone and don't have an engaging 40 minute conversation they have failed to be accepted and liked. This is a recipe for fear of rejection, fear of failure and self-consciousness. Do what confident socially active people do, talk to a whole range of people and accept that some interactions are short, some are long, and all you can do is chat and look for good matches. This outlook changes everything, it means you never again have to worry about getting stuck in a boring, dead end conversation and you never have to stand there