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But Beauty, real Beauty, ends where an intellectual expression begins.
There is a fatality about all physical and intellectual distinction, the sort of fatality that seems to dog through history the faltering steps of kings. It is better not to be different from one’s fellows. The ugly and the stupid have the best of it in this world. They can sit quietly and gape at the play. If they know nothing of victory, they are at least spared the knowledge of defeat.
The commonest thing is delightful if one only hides it.
“every portrait that is painted with feeling is a portrait of the artist, not of the sitter. The sitter is merely the accident, the occasion. It is not he who is revealed by the painter; it is rather the painter who, on the coloured canvas, reveals himself.
The wind shook some blossoms from the trees, and the heavy lilac blooms, with their clustering stars, moved to and fro in the languid air. A grasshopper began to chirrup in the grass, and a long thin dragon-fly floated by on its brown gauze wings.
I knew that I had come face to face with some one whose mere personality was so fascinating that, if I allowed it to do so, it would absorb my whole nature, my whole soul, my very art itself.
I have always been my own master; had at least always been so till I met Dorian Gray.
‘Sir Humpty Dumpty—you
“Laughter is not a bad beginning for a friendship, and it is the best ending for one,”
You like every one; that is to say, you are indifferent to every one.”
The only thing he considers of any importance is whether one believes it oneself. Now, the value of an idea has nothing whatsoever to do with the sincerity of the man who expresses it. Indeed, the probabilities are that the more insincere the man is, the more purely intellectual will the idea be, as in that case it will not be coloured by either his wants, his desires, or his prejudices.
But a few minutes with somebody one worships mean a great deal.” “But you don’t really worship him?” “I do.” “How extraordinary! I thought you would never care for anything but your painting—your art, I should say. Art sounds better, doesn’t it?” “He is all my art to me now.
He has stood as Paris in dainty armour, and as Adonis with huntsman’s cloak and polished boar-spear. Crowned with heavy lotus-blossoms, he has sat on the prow of Adrian’s barge, looking into the green, turbid Nile. He has leaned over the still pool of some Greek woodland, and seen in the waters’ silent silver the wonder of his own beauty. But he is much more to me than that.
It is a sad thing to think of, but there is no doubt that Genius lasts longer than Beauty. That accounts for the fact that we all take such pains to overeducate ourselves. In the wild struggle for existence, we want to have something that endures, and so we fill our minds with rubbish and facts, in the silly hope of keeping our place.
The worst of having a romance is that it leaves one so unromantic.”
The aim of life is self-development. To realise one’s nature perfectly—that is what each of us is here for. People are afraid of themselves, nowadays. They have forgotten the highest of all duties, the duty that one owes to oneself. Of course they are charitable. They feed the hungry, and clothe the beggar. But their own souls starve, and are naked. Courage has gone out of our race. Perhaps we never really had it. The terror of society, which is the basis of morals, the terror of God, which is the secret of religion,—these are the two things that govern us. And yet . . .”
really interesting to read the hedonistic and egoistic philosophies of late victprian england which caused, um. a domino effect. which many decades later turned into this 21st century mess
The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it—and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself, with desire for what its monstrous laws have made monstrous and unlawful.
(theres no way im being converted to believing in hedonism but a fraction of this quote is true. yield to temptation, but also bring yourself up to the Lord. His power will defeat temptation)
It is in the brain, and the brain only, that the great sins of the world take place also.
It seemed to him that he had been walking in fire.
flower-like hands,
Beauty is a form of Genius, is higher indeed than Genius, as it needs no explanation. It is one of the great facts of the world, like sunlight, or spring-time, or the reflection in dark waters of that silver shell we call the moon. It cannot be questioned. It has its Divine right of sovereignty.
The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible.
Your voice and the voice of Sybil Vane are two things that I shall never forget. When I close my eyes, I hear them, and each of them says something different. I don’t know which to follow. Why should I not love her?
No way. Sybil is a direct parallel of lord Henry. What. That ‘How can I not love her?’ is talking about him too.
When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls romance.

