20 Problems Only Book Lovers Understand

Posted by Hayley on November 13, 2015

Last week we asked on Facebook and Twitter: What's a problem only book lovers understand? We got over 1,000 amazing responses! So even if non-book lovers don't get your struggle, remember—you're among friends here.


1. "The urge to buy books even though you still have too many books to read at home." (Rie VdWarth)

2. "Feeling sad for people who don't really exist." (Kimberly Moniz)

3. "RUNNING OUT OF SHELF SPACE!!!" (Kim)

4. "Getting interrupted when you are on the last few pages of a book." (Sobe Daya)

5. "The book hangover. When a good book finishes but you can't start a new one because you're still too immersed in the last book to move on." (Meagan Lewis)

6. "Wanting every book in a library section but knowing it is impossible to read all of them." (Richard Azia)

7. "Waiting so long for a sequel that you forget what happened in the first book." (Jessica Luong)

8. "When you're lying in bed and it's all cold in your room—and the hand holding the book freezes to death, even though the rest of you is warm under the blankets." (Alina Marie Swan)

9. "Finishing a book and having to wait a whole year to read the next in the series." (Sarah Scanion)

10. "Trying to keep the book dry while reading in the bath." (Patricia Boland)

11. "Ordering a book online and getting the book with the movie cover. A book with a movie cover just doesn't feel the same." (Anna RN)

12. "Not being able to read and eat lunch at the same time because you don't have a third arm." (Bernadette)

13. "When someone borrows your book and doesn't return it for ages!" (Pallavi B)

14. "Deciding. Which. Book. To. Read. First." (Monique Balsamo)

15. "Getting to a 'can't stop reading' spot in the book and it's 3:00am." (Joan Chesley)

16. "When you have a book with you, but it's not the one you wanted to read right then." (Virginia Osborne)

17. "Being forced to stop reading by other obligations, but choosing to ignore those obligations. Then getting in trouble." (Feel Like Fangirling)

18. "Packing for a trip and never being able to bring enough books." (Erika Gallion)

19. "Having a book fall on your face because you're reading on your back while holding the book up." (Manuel Cedillo)

20. And the ultimate book lovers' dilemma: "So many books, so little time." (Navy Reading)


Have another bibliophile-specific problem? Share it with your fellow Goodreads members in the comments! Chances are you'll find someone (or many someones) who feel your book pain.

(Top image credit: Illustration by Quentin Blake for Roald Dahl's Matilda.)

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message 1051: by Donné (new)

Donné Black All so true makes me feel less alone.........


message 1052: by LaTasha (new)

LaTasha This list is so true!!!! I'm having a book hangover now lol


message 1053: by Augustine (new)

Augustine Kobayashi Buying a box set of a trilogy and realizing it only counts as one book on Reading Challenge...


message 1054: by Sarah (new)

Sarah My favorite is when people think the only reason to read is because you're bored, so they commence a conversation with me as though it's a kindness. I just want to read my book!


message 1055: by Ruth (new)

Ruth The only ones I don't identify with are 6, 11 and 13... The true signs of a book worm


message 1056: by Ruth (new)

Ruth James wrote: "Living in a town where no one reads at all! I'm slowly dying from the loneliness..."

No way! So depressing...


message 1057: by Ruth (new)

Ruth I think they should add: "Wanting a book for Christmas and then feeling like screaming at someone when they buy you the ebook version. What!?"


message 1058: by Anaee (new)

Anaee So much truth on this list! My feelings are exposed, haha!


message 1059: by Anne (new)

Anne I totally agree with all of the above! Let me add another one: buying a second-hand book which is very difficult to find, absolutely thrilling story and ... the last pages are missing!


Tanz the Fluorescent Adolescent Where the hell is having the piss taken out of you for being a "geeky", antisocial book-lover? Personally, I'm not bothered by being mocked about anything but I find it insulting that not everyone loves the incredibly fantastic hobby of reading!


message 1061: by Angelika (new)

Angelika That's the best thing about books: you're never alone. As for having people to talk about books: hello Goodreads.
I can identify with most of these problems. The worst is when I can't put a book down so I fall behind at work. I hate excuses but I feel too embarrassed to admit to reading more than is healthy. I've only confessed that to one friend because she hinted at it first. When we both came out of our respective closets we felt closer.


message 1062: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Sandridge This had me seriously lol. All these are so true!! Too funny.


message 1063: by Read it first (new)

Read it first Never being able to quite replicate the perfect pillow combination when you're reading.


message 1064: by Shiven (new)

Shiven Jain And also...

Hating people unintentionally because the don't like reading...


message 1065: by Adrianna (new)

Adrianna Melanie wrote: "I can relate to each and every one of those."

YES SAME DUDE!!!


message 1066: by Rachana (new)

Rachana Whenever I get a book to read, for that length of the time the real world stop existing for me. I do get emotionally connected to the characters in that particular book and Yes, I too wish to be able to read every available book in this lifetime and the very thought that it is impossible makes me sad..feeling deprived of something. From where come all these stories..each one is new, each one is different, each one is unique.


message 1067: by Layla (new)

Layla I can identify with most of these. But honestly, the best thing I ever did was covert over to e-books. So many problems solved. Packing for a trip? No problem, I have an app for that on a device I am taking anyway. Not enough shelf space? No problem. I have endless shelf space. People borrowing my books? Never a problem anymore. Reading the bath is even not a problem if you have a Lifeproof phone cover. It's totally water tight. Yes, I have one I use JUST for the bathtub and pool reading. It's too bulky for the rest of the time.

The biggst perk of digital? I get new releases the MINUTE they are available. No waiting for the bookstore, driving there, nothing. My books never get too worn. And I ALWAYS have the right book with me, even if it means I have to buy a book in digital copy I already own in paper (because I bought it before I converted over). And no, I don't resent that. If I love a book enough to buy it twice the author has EARNED my money.

I do miss the smell and feel of paper books. But as I get older (41!) I really appreciate being able to adjust my font with a tap of the screen.

The ones that going digital does help with:
The book hangover.
Which book to read first.
Buying too many books. This one is especially easy in the digtal world.
And 7, 9, 15 and 17.


message 1068: by Erin (new)

Erin This entiiiiire list is me!


message 1069: by izzy (new)

izzy curtis This is so ME!


message 1070: by Frederique B (new)

Frederique B I recognise pretty much ALL of them!! Especially 1,2,3,4,8,14,12,15,16,18 and 20. Luckily I have a ereader


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