hi, I'm in this weird place where I personally think I'm attractive but I don't think people (especially guys) see it and it's so frustrating idk I just want to feel desired you know?

Ah yeah, I’ve felt that way for the better part of the last five or six years. It can be really frustrating and confusing to simultaneously really love yourself and love how you look and then also not expect other people to see you in the same light you see yourself in.

The best advice I can give is just keep living and being beautiful for YOU. Someone is going to realize you’re absolutely radiant. Hell, I’m sure plenty of people already have, even if they haven’t told you. But you can’t control what other people see when they look at you, so stay focused on loving yourself.