Where we talk about good and bad girls...

It seems to me you could broadly lump most women into one of two groups...good and bad. Not that I am some misogynist or that I hate women or anything like that...this is more about the kind of women I am attracted too, and the ones I end up dating.

For the most part I think bad girls are far more interesting, but hey I like to drink, and smoke, and get tattooed so those are the kind of girls I am around most often. I like girls who are street smart and can carry themselves with some confidence and for whatever reason those kinds of girls seem to come from the group that most of us would label as bad.

I will say this...I have dated two legitimate good girls...not street smart, good in school, very book smart, and both of them ended up in the end doing things that were so far beyond good that it kind of shatters any idea of separation of bad and good females in my own mind. One earned the nickname Hell Bitch...and the other was my terrible ex wife...who currently resides somewhere were it is very hot...if you believe in that sort of thing.

I mention of all of this because I get asked a lot what kind of girls I like, and what attracts me to this one of that one...The only answer I have is I date and am attracted to girls that I find interesting...and yes I understand that is very broad...but more than a blonde girl, or a red head of a short girl or a tall one...if I find something interesting about them I pursue them...that is not to say physical attraction is secondary...but for me a girl's personality outweighs any physical attributes.

This of course leads me to date a variety of women in terms of looks, and a lot of people don't get that...I don't have a type...because what ever it is I find interesting in a woman when I meet them is the thing I become attracted to. Sometimes that doesn't go very deep, but sometimes it is totally deep...

I think it is funny when new girls that enter my life go snooping and check my facebook for pics of exes and what not...most of that stuff has been deleted but never under estimate a female when she is looking to find out about stuff...and they see that my last two more serious relationships were with girls that they say look like twins...

For me these two women are so different in personality that I never noticed how alike they look physically. It is not something I can justify in my mind...even if I were to look at pictures of the two of them side by side...I just don't see it...but they both had long straight black hair, fairly pale complections, and distinct looking faces. I know that they do but their personalities are so different, and one has a fairly pronounced foreign accent that to me they look completely different in my mind's eye...by the way this is not an argument one should ever have with someone they find themselves involved with...because well drama lol.