What is sexy? (according to Jerry Seinfeld and me)

“Any reduction of artifice is appealing.”

— Jerry Seinfeld

I know it's Seinfeld, and he's not exactly the arbiter of sexy, but I couldn't agree more. 

My wife is as beautiful at the moment she wakes in the morning, bleary-eyed and pajama-clad, as she is when she's dressed for a night on the town. 

In fact, I think she's most beautiful when wearing a headband, jeans, a tee shirt, and sneakers. 

Seinfeld also says, "The need to always look sexy is not sexy. The need to always look good is not good. A lot of things are sexy."

Yes. That, too. Big time.