Guest Post – Questions you should never ask your husband
I am quite good at NOT asking questions that will hurt my hubby’s feelings. It’s the comments I make in the heat of the moment that I wish I could take back.
My husband mends my broken heart EVERY TIME! Shouldn’t that be enough?!
I believe it should be and I will apologize every time I expect more. Or blame him for things that are not his fault.
He is the best guy in the world FOR ME! ;-)
Peace, love & the sense to choose your battles carefully,
Sherrie
Sherrie Miranda's historically based, coming of age, Adventure novel “Secrets & Lies in El Salvador” is about an American girl in war-torn El Salvador:
http://tinyurl.com/klxbt4y
Her husband made a video for her novel. He wrote the song too:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/P11Ch5chkAc?version=3&rel=1&fs=1&autohide=2&showsearch=0&showinfo=1&iv_load_policy=1&wmode=transparent
“Do you know what you’re doing?”
Nope, just avoid this one. There is no tone, inflection, or body language that you can wrap this one in. Simply asking the question is a complete no confidence vote. Standing by with a first aid kit or a fire extinguisher just reinforces the no confidence vote with props for dramatic effect. Smile sweetly and pour praise over him, because the last words he ever hears should not be, “do you know what you’re doing?”
“Does this make me look fat?”
Literally volumes have been written about this question and how to respond to it. There may well be an active 12 step meeting for people recovering from this question. You shouldn’t ask this question for two reasons, first you’re messing with your own mind, and second, his only form of self defense is going to require him to mess with your mind, too…
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