What do we teach the children?

Patricia, Hanna and Anja watching Mio, Angelina and Guy do a dance performance in our living room.

Being poly is no picnic as there are no written scripts or handbooks in how to actually live it (sure there are some good books out there, but they all state the same thing, we make it up as we go along).

But one of our trickiest dilemmas have been: what do we teach the children?

Early on we decided not to sit down and have “The talk” with them. We also decided, as this journey for us has been a...