The Light Bulb Has to Want to Change

This morning I received a letter from an enthusiastic reader of my first book, People Tools, published in 2014. I wrote that book, and the two that followed, to share my thoughts on how you can improve your relationships.

The letter said, in part:

“After reading the strategy ‘Socrates-Know Thyself’, Jen realized that although she had been feeling that she should accept the offer she received to go to college at Berkeley, she felt in her heart that she was meant to go to UCLA and ultimately ma...