The Only Day that I Still Love Him
Thank you for sharing this. It is amazing what we remember from that day & how it ties us together.
You are healing, slow but sure. And it sounds like you are taking the time to heal, rather than jumping into something else. That would only make the pain worse in the long run.
I have seen people recover and grow from an experience like this. I have even done it myself, though I must admit I was one who extended the pain out for years & made it worse.
But everyone, including me, eventually moved on and found a wonderful loving relationship with a new partner (oddly, we all ended up with people we had known for around ten years!).
The first relationship we have to repair is the one we have with ourselves. If we don’t love ourself, we can never love someone else the way they deserve and their love will never be enough for us.
It is really difficult to walk down this road, but you don’t have to walk it alone. Your friends and family, the ones you trust most, can walk this path with you. You can learn to love life without a partner. Once you do that, your life with a partner will be amazing! Trust me. I have seen this first hand.
Peace,
Sherrie
Sherrie Miranda’s historically based, coming of age, Adventure novel “Secrets & Lies in El Salvador” is about an American girl in war-torn El Salvador:
http://tinyurl.com/klxbt4y
Her husband made a video for her novel. He wrote the song too:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/P11Ch5chkAc?version=3&rel=1&fs=1&showsearch=0&showinfo=1&iv_load_policy=1&wmode=transparent
Originally posted on izzyasabee:
“Thank Life For Happening,
Thank Every Twist And Turn,
There Is A Reason For Every Single Thing,
There Is A Reason For Every Worry And Concern.”
– Dante Jannicelli
Divorce is difficult. As I wrote about in Ripped Apart, no matter what the reason – anyone dealing with it goes through a myriad of emotions. One of the hardest things I had to deal with was allowing myself to fall out of love with the man I’d pledged my life to. I didn’t want to do it. It made me feel like a liar and a failure. So many things had happened and I had so much anger toward this person, it was so incredibly confusing. One day I hated him, and the next day, I just wanted to pretend everything was fine and start all over again. Because that was no longer an option, I had to somehow…
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