Heart Broken in Hartford

Dear Baba Rumcake,

I'm in the position of deciding whether or not to have sex with a wonderful guy who happens to have genital herpes. I think that I would be willing to take the risk if I were sure that this relationship was going someplace long term but its too early to tell. That probably means its too early to risk having sex too, but I'm interested in other people's opinions on the scenario.

What would you do if you found out that a prospective romantic partner had genital herpes? Would y...