An introduction to Female Led Relationships

Here's an introduction to Female Led Relationships from my book:

How to Have a Female Led Relationship (FLR): Femdom does Relationship Advice: Mistress Harley teaches you to run your man

The idea of the female-led relationship is hardly a new one, though it may seem a tad foreign to those raised in patriarchal Western cultures. However many cultures across the world have enjoyed the benefits of Matriarchal societies, gynecoratic governments, and of course where female led relationships are normative.Consider for example Jewish culture. As a Jewish Princess myself I would often observe that while families made an effort to sometimes appear patriarchal (where a woman might defer to a man’s choices in public) as soon as families were in private everyone knew that the Jewish man was the spineless weak willed one who would defer to both the judgement and the nagging of his smarter and often physically stronger female partner. Matriarchal societies have been documented in China, India, Native Americans, Burma, and even during the Roman Empire. Even in nature we often see this interplay at work. The peacock female is larger and stronger than the male. The male peacock is responsible for courtship, for strutting and preening and convincing the female that he is a worthy partner. There is nothing inherently right or wrong about how a relationship is structured, but these examples serve to show that female led relationships are normal in non-American cultures and even found in the animal kingdom. You are probably reading this blog because as a woman you seek greater control in your relationship. You probably often find yourself frustrated by your partner’s shortcomings. Maybe you have powerful feelings about his behaviors within your relationship such as his obsessive pornography viewing, compulsive masturbation habits, or perhaps simply his lack of attentiveness to YOUR desires and YOUR needs. Your partner, simply put, needs to be whipped into shape, and you have come to the right place. As a Dominatrix who specializes in training men to be more submissive, subservient, and attentive to serving me I can teach you all my tricks to guiding your boy into being the partner you have always wanted.



If you are a pathetic male reading this blog it’s because you’ve probably felt unworthy, unsatisfactory, and inferior to your partner for quite some time. Your feelings of inadequacy and shame are so strong that often it is now the only way you can even feel aroused. You are curious about having your female partner take charge so that you can both lead happier and more fulfilled lives, and as a Dominatrix who has enslaved hundreds of boys in chastity and with digital devices I can tell you that you are fully capable of exploring these desires.In this volume I will make the argument for why female led relationships are not only the most sensible approach to structuring your romantic relationship, I will also tell you how it will lead to a more fulfilling romantic life for you and your partner, as well as provide my tried and tested tricks and trips to training the female dominant in how to handle her submissive male partner, as well as instruct the submissive male in tactics to initiate female led relationships and provide the best comprehensive service to his Mistress that he possible can.