Improve Your Relationship- Catch Them Being Better

Imagine you have wanted your partner or spouse to change their behavior for a long time. And one fine day, as if by magic, they do. For example, they finally take out the trash without being reminded.

How should you respond?

Last Friday I appeared on the “The Social,” a popular national television show in Canada. I wrote a chapter “Catch Them Being Better” in my book People Tools for Love and Relationships. On “The Social” I mentioned, as I had in my book, that to encourage repeat behavior yo...