Hi Azra, can you explain to me what you think the "married men" poem means please

You want married men because you imagine them without their wives and then for you, their wives don’t exist. There’s something really…. Sinuous and almost sinister about that piece. You can see him standing across the room from you. Maybe he’s leaning against a wall, or a table but he’s got a twinkle in his eye and maybe he winks at you. You can see the wedding ring on his hand but it doesn’t matter because you’re intrigued by the way he’s standing and looking at you like you’re something interesting he read in a book. But the cats know that men who cheat on their partners are scum because cats know everything.