To Those In Your 30’s

       Thirties can be a dreaded time by some. For some it’s the first time you feel like an adult, for others it feels like accomplishing your dreams are over. For some it means the wild days are over and it’s time to live a normal life.

   

          First let me tell you what 30’s is not then we’ll talk about what it is.

           30 is not the end.  30 is not the time to sit on the couch watching football in your suburbia house with your 2.5 kids.

         30 is not the time to stop exploring and stop being adventurous.

         30 is not the time to quit dreaming.

         30 is not the time when your kids are your sole goal in life.

         30 is not the time when pinterest crafts and decorating your home to look like something out of a magazine should be your goal.

    

        If anything your 30’s should be a time to live life even more bolder than before.  Your kids are at an age where they need to see their parents going out and making the world a better place and building their dreams and their parents saying to them “dreams take risk, watch and don’t be afraid”.

       If you are in your thirties now is the best time to get in shape, to build your busineas, to go back to school, to work hard for your dreams.  You have more confidence under your belt more experience, more motivation.

 

       So many people use their family, job, or age as As a crutch to keep them from truly living.  It’s an excuse that keeps us lazy and complacent.

      Your family should be a propellant to make you want to be more for them and so that your kids will grow up seeing what it truly means to live to the fullest.

 

      So stop being depressed, stop playing fantasy football and fussing over coffee for hours to no end. 

      Get out there and make something of your life. Build your future, do the things you were meant to do to make this place better for you and your family and those who will follow you.

    

      Be more.