I remember you mentioning your bf was in the military and I was wondering how you deal with that? My bf is thinking of joining and I just can't picture him leaving. We've been together for 5 years and best friends for 8.. I just can't.

You just have to let him do what makes him happy or what he thinks would be good for him as well as the both of you. It’s hard, but time goes by fast and I know that soon we’ll be together again. It’s not being able to hug him or even see him in person that makes it the most difficult, you know. But I love him too much to let him go and to not wait for him. Because I know that he’s worth the wait and the pain and the impatience. It’s hard but it will be over before you know it. If it’s what he wants to do, no one can really stop him, mostly if it’s going to benefit his life and your life in the long run. You don’t have to be together to not be able to truly be together, if that makes sense. I hope you feel at ease soon though, love.