No One Understands You And What To Do About It

InNo One Understands You and What to Do About It,Heidi Halvorson talks about the two phases of perception: automatic and thoughtful. People rarely try to move past that first phase where people have a “gist” of who you are as a person — most of the time, that’s all they want.

Perception is tricky

One of the challenges I think that we need to face head on when we think about how we come across to other people is really understanding that perception is tricky and that for your perceiver, the...