Stand in your power

Well I have tried so hard to stay away from this topic but its come up again in my workshop today so I can't ignore it especially when I feel like it's a sign. 

Bullying has been huge in the media recently because of the sad cases where some children have died because of bullying, which is a tragic situation. But we are faced will bullies every single day. In every walk of life we cannot escape them.  Sadly it's been in my life where I have been bullied for one thing and another and it's only recently that I have had my eyes opened. 

I have in so many ways walked around in my own world and taken what people have said or done as I was told to do as gospel and done it.  I didn't have a voice I didn't speak up. I suppose that was my fault but in many senses I was not strong enough to say no, to stand up for what I believed, and therefore I was bulled in to certain things, and I have now recently seen it, and it's not something I am prepared to do. 

Whats interesting is when your eyes have been opened and the truth has been revealed you see throughout your life, the pattern that you started and continued. The people that you associated with and the ways that people react to you. I was allowing my self to be bullied and so I attracted them, because I didn't respect myself, however with my eyes open I see so much more. 

Standing up for something is hard especially when you have been walked over for so long and it feels alien to you, but the more you do it, and the more that you believe in yourself the better. For me its been about finding those people in my life who are coming in out of love and helping because they care and they want to help and want to support. It's not been easy and to change my ways has been difficult to say the least but now it's about standing in your power. 

I was asked today how to 'come out' regarding my mediumship, and it was a hard thing and people will all have a judgement, and they will all have an opinion but that shouldn't matter because my world doesn't have an effect on your world and what is happening unless you decide to be involved.  For instance, people don't have to believe in my gift if they don't want to and they don't have to read this blog if they don't want to either, they can choose.  But people don't want to let others just be free to live there life, they want to interfere in some way. They want to give an opinion but thats up to them. 

But it's about being comfortable with who we are and what we stand for and knowing that whatever we choose is right for us. It's not always right for everyone but if it's right for you then so be it!  As long as you treat everyone with love and respect and you treat them how you would want to be treated, does it matter what they do for a living, their sexual preferences, their choice of partners etc etc. It's about the person that matters. 

So lets stop having negative opinions and come from a place of love and appreciate all the beauty that surrounds us.  Be free to live life the way that we see fit and know that it's your life and you are entitled to live it your way... with love in your heart!

Have a fabulous weekend

Lisa xx