Finding your voice!

The twists and turns of life have an effect on us all, and sometimes we never know how to cope with things and we become overwhelmed.  Its then that we have the melt downs and we struggle.  It's only natural.  The stress that we put on ourselves is incredible and sometimes we don't realize that we are doing it.  But that is part of life.  

Many times we suffer in silence, or we over react.  However we have to sit back and take a moment.  Take that moment for really feel how we feel, what we are really feeling and how we can work through it.  It can be very easy.  But we make it difficult. 

I know what I am saying here as I do it all the time.  I have looked for a solution or reacted and realized that I am making it more complicated that what it really is.  If I'd have just sat back and taken a moment then I would realized that I could have made a better decision. 

That is something that I have learnt over the last few months.  It's been a growth period for me and something I am very grateful for.  I have seen the true colors of people and what they stand for, and actually I have realized that it's not something I want to be around.  

However over this time it's also made me realize that I need to stand up for me.  What I believe in, who I am and also what I want in life, instead of being dictated to.  I have been dictated to in so many ways, and I have been the doormat that had 'wipe here' on my forehead.  I know I may not project that image out, but it's true, and throughout this time I have found my voice, stood up for what I want and believe in and grown so much, that people are questioning my influence.  Well actually the influence is an inspiration, I have been inspired to stand strong and find a voice and that voice is mine and I deserve to be heard, and so should you!

So when you want to be heard, never be scared to say what you feel, because you are being true to yourself and your beliefs. Know that you are doing what is right for you and your soul.  And with this you will inspire more people to find there voice and empower them to stand strong!

Have a fabulous weekend!

Much love

Lisa xx