I was dating a girl for about a month last year and we ended because she didn't want a relationship. Recently, we slept together again and for the past few months have been meeting up and messaging a lot, and I still want to be with her and she's unclear.

You should be straightforward about what you want. These kinds of situations get messy and painful fast when people aren’t honest. But you need to be prepared for the fact that nothing may have changed on her end; she might still not want a relationship. You have to respect her if she doesn’t.

It’s not worth throwing your heart at someone who won’t be good to it.