the B-word

Since when has it become okay for men to respond to women's posts in online articles beginning with "Bitch"? I've seen it often, but the one that set me off today is in the comments to a Daily What article, where Obvious says "`with reason and science' Bitch, don't make me laugh."

Men online continually address women as "bitch," and women say nothing in reply. They call one another "bitch," for that matter, and the women they write about are "bitches."

I've raised a stink about this before, and have been told, firmly, by younger women that they are reclaiming the world and expressing the inner bitch. Well, in these instances, the men who constantly refer to women aren't reclaiming the word for women unless they're doing so in a "heel!" way, and the writers aren't reclaiming it for the women they write about.

So will someone tell me why people are just accepting this without at least trying to point out this is an unacceptable term to use for women and to ask why it's still used when it's clearly pejorative in these contexts? Because I'm hoping that some of these people didn't really put it together.

Honestly, I'm hoping, because it's that or slug somebody.
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Published on January 06, 2011 11:22
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message 1: by Alexandra (new)

Alexandra Black As much as some may claim they're 'taking back their womanhood' it's more so that they just desire the ability to be the afformentioned word. On the internet people are not held accountable for their bull on the same level that they are in the outside world. So 'naturally' they take that to a level where they forget themselves, common decency, and that such words are not to be used lightly.
Do not get me wrong, there are plenty of people that I've used that word for, ficticious or other wise. But its not something you lay to print unless its in a storytelling fashion, and most certainly not in a casual manner.


message 2: by John (new)

John Parvin well... yea... I just hope that these people who call each other 'bitch' realize what it means... though I doubt it... since I don't see a lot of female dogs running around with clothing on... it is the same as calling a person 'fag' yet very obviously the person that is called that is not a bundle of sticks tied together...
So those who claim to be finding their inner 'bitch' better be walking on four legs and have litters of pups if they get pregnant...

please forgive the use of such wording...


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