BOLDyou: Learn to replace ‘what if’, with ‘why not’

I coulda…. I shoulda…. I wish I (or we, or he, or she) woulda….

Ah, yes, the elder statesmen of the “what if’s” collective… I’m sure that you’re familiar with them. Most of us have bumped into them on occasion at one time or another. Perhaps you’ve even had more than a simple run-in with them. Maybe they’ve dropped in for an extended visit, or even taken up residency in the guest room (eek!)…

It’s easy to get sucked in by the “what if’s”. They take your hand and lead you on all sorts of wonde...