Let Me Be Me

I have been referred to
With numerous names,I have been spoken ofFor playing mind games.
I have been calledAn opportunistWho uses her womanly wiles,To get her wayAnd get awayWith people by using smiles.
If I wear bright colours,A bangle, a bindiAnd a pair of ear top.I am said to have Taken painsTo look good and dress up.
If I laugh aloud I have no shameIf I dont I am a SnobIf I amIndependentThey think its due to my job.
I have had enough and now its timeFor me to raise my voice.I am...