6 Tests to Prove He’s Single
Last week we had Is He Lying About Being Single? 6 Signs to Figure it Out, this week let’s put men’s feet to the fire and prove he’s single.
He doesn’t give you his cell number
Ask for it. If he hesitates, then challenge him on it. Keep it funny and witty. Say, “Come on Mr., I want to include your wife in our conversations!” Then, if he makes some lame excuse or goes MIA, give yourself a big pat on the back and do your happy dance! You just saved yourself a lot of heartache.
He is scheduling day time dates with you
Normally, I would like this from a guy. This proves he wants to get to know you instead of driving to the hoop on a Saturday night. But this could also mean that he is setting up a drive to the hoop when his girlfriend is out of town next week. Change the time. Move it to after work appetizers. Get the date out of the 9-5 work day and see if he agrees. If he constantly tries to pull it back into his timeframe be careful.
He never texts you after 7 pm
Last week, I mentioned he texts you all day but then he stops. Delay your response until nighttime. This shows him that you are busy and he is not your primary concern as covered in my #1 best seller, “Power Texting Men.” It also raises a red flag if he doesn’t respond to your night time texts.
He makes excuses when asked about a weekend trip
Obviously, you have been dating for a while if you are considering a weekend trip. That said, I have talked to women who didn’t find out until 6 months later that this guy had a wife and kids! Mention a weekend trip. You don’t have to be serious, just throw it out there. Do this when you are in person so you can see his body language! If he quivers, stutters or changes the subject, then you need to keep testing him.
He gets interrupted when you are on a date
I love this one! If he walks away or he stays and his voice gets quieter, do this: Walk past him and say something fairly loud like, “I’ll be right back, babe, I’m hitting the ladies room.” Afterwards, when you come back and don’t see him, look under the table and you will see him sucking his thumb, crying because he just lost both you and his girlfriend!!
He goes MIA
You go MIA! When he contacts you 3 days later, with his lame ass excuses, you give him 4 days and hit him with you lame ass excuses! “Oh, hey I lost my phone too!” I just love screwing with men J
To Sum Up…
Some of these things could be harmless – I get that. Look at all these signs, if he is doing 2 or 3 of these things, then you need to start looking at the whole picture. Why not cover your bases? By reacting the way I recommend, you are doing yourself a favor either way. How? You are setting boundaries. You are challenging him, and, you are making it crystal clear that you are a catch and your time is valuable.
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