Get Over Him! 6 Sure Fire Post Break Up Tools
This is for all you women who know the last guy was wrong for you and it’s time to get over him! You want to move on because getting him back is not an option – he can’t be fixed. I’m here to help you. Just place me on your right shoulder and let’s get to work!
Grieve but with a time limit
You need to grieve – I get that, but I’m only giving you a set number of days. Grab your calendar while you are eating your Ben and Jerrys and start to make some entries. Leave three to five days blank to cover the event, then start booking your new life. Make some new entries – entries that you have never made before. You are single now so go big or stay home alone!
Join Meetup.com, pick an event this weekend, hit the “I’m going” button, and GO!
With a dry erase marker write this on your mirror: “The grieving is over – it’s time to get happy”
Say this all day long, until it manifests into reality!
Join a new gym, not just to get into shape, but for the positive endorphins that are going to dance in your head. You might even make a new friend. Force yourself to go to a new
Cut him out of the will
Everything goes! Pictures, emails, texts, (block his phone number). Block him on Facebook and every other social media platform you have. You’re not sad, you’re mad!. Stop going to places where you will run into him. Keep in touch with a few of his friends to really get him!
Turn your sadness into anger
The grieving period is over, but you know how it works – the memory flash backs keep coming back and you are sad again. This is normal, but let’s turn these fond memories into the bad memories. Remember, the time… FILL IN HERE! The yelling, the lack of support, the terrible sex, the alcohol abuse, the drugs, the constant borrowing of money, and that mole hair on his back! That’s it, lay it on thick.
Practice displacement
You remember physics class? Fill up the glass with water, drop in the ice cubes, and watch the water flow over onto the floor. The best way to get over him is to fill your glass with new memories and with new people (men) as soon as you feel you are ready. In the short term, staying extremely busy will be your temporary displacement to help you through. Keep doing things even when you don’t want to. Wear yourself out so at the end of the day you just sleep.
Give yourself a serious girl’s day
If you can afford it, I’m talking a full blown spa day, complete with a massage! Follow with a major clothes shopping spree, and finish with a nice night out with your girls or your family. You deserve this for all the crap you put with for the last two and half years!
Re-discover yourself
Now is the time for my secret weapon. People grow when they are single! Kids, personalities, and careers stunt our growth. You are single now and you have more time for yourself without having to meet his needs. Rejoice and get to know yourself all over again. Get my best-selling confidence course, Comfortable in Your Own Shoes, create your new life vision and learn how to get it!
Do these six things, immediately, after the break up and you will feel much, much better.
What types of things have you tried to get over a breakup?
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