How Do I Help Her Understand Consent?

Dear Dr Betty

I found your website about a year ago and have tried writing many times. (None of which I have sent). You and everyone who contributed there has helped me accept myself in so many ways and I cannot thank you enough for the wonderful work you do.

I actually have two questions for you. The first one is concerning something my friend did that I have mixed feelings about and another is about the new BDSM lifestyle my partner and I are trying out.

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