The Solution to Any Relationship Discord – The JOGs Bring It!
I Love this so much & I Love you! I really and truly do. Enjoy this and I look forward to reading your comments about how this integrates for you! Xo
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One day soon we intend that you will know and feel with every cell in your body how divinely loved and honored and cared for that you are. It is our deepest desire or one of our deepest desires for you to know while in the body how loved you truly are. How perfect you truly are, how miraculous you truly are. We want you to know in every cell of your being-ness just how much reverence and love that all of us have for you. And by all of us we mean Source and your Spirit Team and all in the Highest Light in the non-physical realms. And if you let yourselves really sink into it and feel it you too would feel this love this bounteous, deep love for all of the beings around you.
At times you get irritated or annoyed or agitated with one another or you think you are anyway and really underneath those emotions is a deep love for each other. A deep love for the other simply because they exist. We would like you to tune more into this emotion than any other emotion. When you find yourself annoyed with another or responding in ways that perhaps you don’t even realize why you are responding in such a way (we would call that your unconscious or subconscious at work) we would like you to stop for a minute and place both hands on your heart and ask to be aligned with the deep love and reverence that your non-physical self has for this being. And sure enough if you call on us – call on your guides and angels of the Highest Light you will be able to feel this. And then whatever happened can be “dealt” with in a way that is far more easeful for everyone. Solutions instantly appear and sometimes the need to do anything releases as well.
We are not saying that you should never speak up when you feel tension or discord in your relating with others – it is important to speak up if you feel the full alignment – the full body yes from Spirit to do so. And it is important to share your feelings or make your requests – yes of course. And we need you to know that the step before all of this – before you reach out and share is to feel into and connect to that deep love for the other and then reach out from that connected place. And when you do that – the other can hear you and receive you in a new, more aligned way and can honor and align with a solution that honors you both. You are bound to bump around with each other in your environments because you have all agreed to help one another in this way. You help bring the unconscious to the conscious, you help to go deeper in to your connection with one another with these instances. What we are suggesting and saying is that before going to any of that, anchoring in to the tenderness and love that you truly feel for the other will serve you all far better. This can be more difficult we hear some of you feeling/saying when it comes to family relationships where what you call triggers may be rampant or in intimate, romantic relationship if there is a history or seemingly so a history of patterned triggers.
We understand. We know that it can seem challenging to you and yet we want to invite you to implore from you your also divine ability to connect to the divine love that you have for them first before approaching the situation.
At the heart of it all there is a deep love. Even those who are hurting or killing each other in this country or in other countries. If they could stop for a minute and feel into the heart of who they are, they would find there, maybe just a small spark of love at first, but upon further alignment with it they would feel a well of love for the other that they are “supposed” to hate or feel they must hurt to feel safe in who they are.
It is at the core of each and every one of you. This deep love, this love that knows no bounds. It is the love that binds us all together.
So yes, you may get on one another’s nerves. You may feel annoyed or angry or rageful even. But those feeling are just indicators of misalignment. And perhaps that individual is misaligned for you. Perhaps they do not need to be part of your intimate circle or experience. Or perhaps the emotion is letting you know that you are misaligned in the work you are doing or what you are offering or in the forum that this occurrence is even occurring. Whatever the message of the emotion is – trust that it is simply giving you information about your alignment and that you can easily shift that into a place of more alignment. Tuning in and allowing yourself to feel the love of your brother, sister, friend, lover, mother, father, daughter, son, coworker, loved one, stranger you “do not know” will serve you, and all manners of solutions will be made available to you.
We hear some of you saying it’s just not that easy and again we hear you and we encourage you to begin to work with this. It is of course a practice that builds on itself, for as you open up to your deep heart love for all beings, it begins to expand and expand so that you can feel it at greater and greater depths. You were born this way, you were wired this way, you were made this way, you all incarnated onto this planet with a deep ability to love each other. You all came in knowing that you are love and that you love all beings. You all have that within you. Over time, conditions and experiences may guard up or clog up this ability to feel this deep love inside of you – but it is still there. So as you crack it open more and more, more and more of it can be illuminated into your consciousness and therefore bring solutions and flow and ease to all manner of friction or tension in your world.
We promise you, it is within you.
And we promise you that you can love another very, very much and also choose to be far, far away from them. You can love another so much and also know they are not the Highest Light for you. And that is okay. What is important is that you allow yourself to feel the love and then from that place you can choose – in or out? Do I want this person in my sphere or swirl as Heather likes to call it, or do I want them far away? And you can choose. But when you are choosing to push them away from an angry place or a “triggered” place as you call it – more and more of them will come to you, either that person or more like them. When you can feel the love that is within you and bless them from that place and then feel the misalignment of having them in your world then they go and stay gone and it is all easeful and good for you and for them. Then each of you can live out what you’re here to experience separately without ever needing to or having to or ever seeing or connecting with one another again.
Really, it works like this and is so easy. But if you do not take the time to do your personal alignment first, then it creates far more bumps, far more potholes even if we’re using the road analogy. And you just don’t need that. You have far more important things to do than hang out in pothole-ville.
Trust us on this one.
Go forth and enjoy, and know that you are loved so deeply and so truly by all –whether or not they can express this to you.
Love,
XoTheJOGs


