Ready to Have an Orgasm with a Partner. How Do I Make This Work?

Hi Betty,

So, I have been sexually active since I was 15 (I am 24 now) and have never had an orgasm with another person - vaginal or clitoral. I can pretty easily have a clitoral orgasm on my own (been doing so since I was 15 also), and I've masturbated with dildo penetration, felt close to a vaginal orgasm (got extremely wet, felt like I was going to pee, etc.) but there was no release there.

I have had many sexual partners, and no orgasms whatsoever. I don't think this is due to their performance, but rather my own blocked/repressed emotions. The orgasms from clitoral masturbation come from fantasies unrelated to sex, so that I feel like orgasming from sex with someone I love is an entirely different world of pleasure that I could never experience.

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