How to Make the “Right” Decision – The JOGs Break it Down For Us

Wow, this is so good! I think it’s one of my favorites, even though they spilled my story all throughout. I’m starting to get more comfortable with them talking about me, so that’s a relief! So Loving this depth of clarity they are giving us! Enjoy! Xo

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Whenever you are wanting to know how to make a clear decision or how to get clear to make a decision you must first remember this truth: there are no wrong decisions. Heather is gasping at this right now because this message is emanating from a strong desire within her to make the “right” decision in a particular area of her life. And we love telling you and really what we’re doing is reminding you because at your core you know this – there are no wrong decisions. There really aren’t. True you can choose a path that has a bumpier ride, but even so, it’s not a big deal. You can always get your bearings, you can always recalibrate, it will always work out for you.

So many of you are paralyzing yourself in trying to make decisions about all manner of things that are “right” and so in your effort to find the “right” path you block the flow of the Magic that can lead you forward in just the direction you need. You’ll often – and we are watching you while this happens – you are often rushing to make a decision, as if, if you pull the plug quickly enough somehow you’ll escape any “wrong-ness”. And truly there is not a wrong decision for any of you on this planet.

There are decisions that evolve you, there are decisions that bring in drama, there are decisions that bring in joy, but if you have a pure desire and wanting for clarity of purpose – you will always arrive at your more-or-less generally intended destination – which will then evolve into another call for a new destination – but we’ll come back to that at another time. Some decisions may be bumpier than others, but often that is exactly what your Soul wanted so that you could evolve forward in big ways. So, so many of you are saying – “well, if I have a less bumpy ride than that means I did it right.” And we are saying, “come on – you think it’s all that black and white?” Well, we are more gentle than that, but really – it is not at all like that. It’s not right or wrong, black or white. It is following the vibrational trajectory that is here for you that you chose before you incarnated. Well, it wasn’t just you who chose it, it was you and your Spirit Team, but we digress.

You are wanting to find alignment with the choices/decisions that most accurately reflect the vibrational offering that your Soul & Spirit Team decided it wanted in this lifetime. And you can tell where you’re at in relation to that trajectory by how good it feels. And yet! And yet, you can be in the midst of something that does not feel super good…and yet you can also feel something really big, juicy and exciting en route to you even from your position of not good feeling. Ever had that happen? Heather had that happen with the breaking off of her engagement. There were moments of her feeling awful and then at the edge of these moments was this distinct, clear knowing that she was evolving something massive forward for her Soul and her family line in this choice. There was a part of her, that Higher Self part of her, that was shining through even still in those moments where she seriously doubted herself and what was happening that was shown to her to let her know that a Higher Calling was in fact calling her. That she had not done anything wrong in being in that relationship and she was certainly not doing anything wrong in leaving that relationship. In fact, both were the “right” choices for her!

Yes, that’s right – two seemingly opposing choices and decisions can absolutely be the right decisions for you. Now we know you are wondering and questioning us here – like “didn’t you all just say there’s no way to make a wrong choice, so how could there be a right choice?” Yes, let us clarify our message further for you here.

A right decision feels good to you in your body when you make it. A wrong decision feels not good to you in your body when you make it.

Aha! You say – but you said Heather was feeling awful about her break-up decision so how could that have been the “right” choice?

You must go deeper than the surface feeling. So, what was the thought Heather was thinking that made her feel awful? The thought was, “I’m such an idiot”. That thought felt terrible, and it felt terrible because it was as far from the truth as she could get. The thought of not being in that relationship felt absolutely positively GLORIOUS to her, it was the best feeling in the world to her, it was the other thoughts about being a failure that were making her feel terrible.

So yes, you must go deeper here; that is why we are saying it is not a black or white ever. It’s not go here is right, go here is wrong. It’s boiling it down to what are the thoughts at the root of these good or not good feelings and when you can distill it down to “taking this action feels good” and “taking this action doesn’t” – then you know which way to go. And sometimes the only clarity you can get is for the next baby step forward and that is okay. You do not need the clarity for the end all be all, in fact, that would defeat the whole purpose of this glorious life experience you are having.

Here is the thing about being a Spirit in a body – you have the mind – the mind can tune in to a variety of conditioned frequencies from your culture, religion, childhood, etc. So you are in this process as you are evolving the Spirit in a body forward ever more – of distilling down to the Soul within you and your Higher Self – that part of you that remains in non-physical and that is what you let guide you. This is why release of this conditioning is so valuable and why Heather’s Soul Alignment work has been so successful and profound for so many and also for others who are offering from a high vibrational place clearing and release of conditioning – it makes getting to that clarity so much more effortless. And of course you came for effortless.

Okay, so let’s say – as we feel Heather asking us. Let’s say you cannot feel the alignment of what you call right-ness in your decision. So, we want you to then go do what you need to do until you can shift back into a higher vibrational place. Not knowing splits your energy all over the place. So when you know what we shared with you and you are feeling into it, distilling it down and you still feel unclear – go for a walk, go dance, go watch a funny kitten video – move yourself into a new environment that will preferably get your body moving or get you into a totally different space – like comedy. Then come back to whatever it is you are trying to get clear on and you will have better clarity.

We gave Heather a decision making exercise for her Live the Magic Retreat this year and what we are sharing here takes that to a deeper level. You see, this evolutionary process and what we shared in earlier messages is that going bigger is truly about going deeper. Deeper into the truth of who you really are, deeper into the truth of who all are, deeper into your connection with all that is and with yourself (one in the same really).

This gives you more to chew on. Play with it, try it out as we encourage you to do with all that we give to you. Let your own experience and guidance lead you forward from here with this.

And for heaven’s sake – trust yourself more. You are so much wiser than you know. And really you cannot get it wrong. We will and are always recalibrating for you. Don’t beat yourself up, just keep choosing what feels the most aligned, feels the best – the most fun, the most glorious and know that it will always work out in your favor. Every time, no exceptions.

We are complete.

XoTheJOGs