A is for Arousal
A-rou-sal - sexual desire in anticipation of sexual activity.
I don't know if the same is true for men, but I'm guessing I'm not the only woman who has difficulty turning off the never ending stream of shit to do constantly running through my mind in order to get in the mood.
It's almost impossible for me to suddenly go from mother/employee/writer to "Let's get it on." While my husband is trying his best to rock my world, I'm wondering if I sent that last email at the office, or if my daughter finished all her homework, or how am I going to end the book I'm writing. It's so frustrating!
So here are a few ways I've learned to overcome the daily hustle and bustle to, well, come:
1. Put down the electronics, all of them, at least half an hour before sexy time. No computer and no texting or Facebooking. No getting into long conversations my mom or anyone else on the phone. I unplug from the world, except for maybe my Kindle, which brings me to 2.
2. Read a dirty story. That's right, to get my mind off of real life I dive into a good "mommy porn" book. My favorite authors are Victoria Ashley, Tessa Bailey, or really any of the Entangled Brazen authors.
3. Put on a dirty movie. I'm not sure I understand why some women are so anti-porno. Sure, if my husband was always watching it when I'm not around it might bother me. But the two of us only watch it together (Yes, I know that for a fact since he won't stop playing video games long enough to do anything else on the computer). It's hard to think about anything but lovin' when the woman on TV is getting it on with two dudes at the same time. Everything I was worrying about or thinking about...whoosh, goes out the window.
So, there you have it. Probably TMI but naughty toys and techniques is my blog theme this year. Thank you so much for stopping by, and be sure to visit some of the other A to Z blogs that are much nicer and more G-rated than mine!
I don't know if the same is true for men, but I'm guessing I'm not the only woman who has difficulty turning off the never ending stream of shit to do constantly running through my mind in order to get in the mood.
It's almost impossible for me to suddenly go from mother/employee/writer to "Let's get it on." While my husband is trying his best to rock my world, I'm wondering if I sent that last email at the office, or if my daughter finished all her homework, or how am I going to end the book I'm writing. It's so frustrating!
So here are a few ways I've learned to overcome the daily hustle and bustle to, well, come:
1. Put down the electronics, all of them, at least half an hour before sexy time. No computer and no texting or Facebooking. No getting into long conversations my mom or anyone else on the phone. I unplug from the world, except for maybe my Kindle, which brings me to 2.
2. Read a dirty story. That's right, to get my mind off of real life I dive into a good "mommy porn" book. My favorite authors are Victoria Ashley, Tessa Bailey, or really any of the Entangled Brazen authors.
3. Put on a dirty movie. I'm not sure I understand why some women are so anti-porno. Sure, if my husband was always watching it when I'm not around it might bother me. But the two of us only watch it together (Yes, I know that for a fact since he won't stop playing video games long enough to do anything else on the computer). It's hard to think about anything but lovin' when the woman on TV is getting it on with two dudes at the same time. Everything I was worrying about or thinking about...whoosh, goes out the window.
So, there you have it. Probably TMI but naughty toys and techniques is my blog theme this year. Thank you so much for stopping by, and be sure to visit some of the other A to Z blogs that are much nicer and more G-rated than mine!
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