10 Questions We Don't Have Guts To Ask Ourselves

It's very easy to pop a question on someone's action or character. It's always easy to point out mistakes in others. It's always easy to make fun of other's mistake and flaws. But one thing which is most difficult is to look our own faults and flaws, to admit own mistakes and confess that we need an improvement. And so today, we will talk about 10 questions we dont have guts to ask ourselves.

10. "Why I am hurting that person?"
It's very often that we sometime do things or convince ourselves to accept that it needs to be done only coz we don't like a  particular person, we are jealous of their actions, achievements, or the kind of attention/life they get. And that led us to do things or say things that might hurt them.

9. "Why I am afraid of doing what I really want to do?"
Everyone of us have our own dreams and desires. Something we want to do, something we want to achieve, something we want to find and discover on our own but all our dreams and desires get over shadowed by thoughts and decisions of people who don't understand a thing about dreams but keep intervening in our lives. But we are so afraid to ask ourselves that why can't we do what we really want and finally suppress our own desires and do what other want.

8. "What else do I need to smile?"
Our parents gave us everything we ever asked for, our friends gave all the time and enjoyment we seeks and our life partners gave all the affections and love we ever dream for but still we are not happy. We still get irritated on little things, we cant do little things that may bring smile on someone's face. We do things just coz we need to do them but we forgot that smile and happiness is what we all live for and at the end we are afraid to ask ourselves that why I am not happy? We forget that our little smile can brings tons of happiness in their lives.

7. "Why can't I help someone else?"
We are so obsessed in our little lives that we forget that we are blessed with the greatest gift and that is Kindness. We get trapped in our own routine that we close our eyes from other's pain and problems and often choose to ignore others. We often decided that we dont want to share our kindness with others and help them in their difficult times, even if they are those who meant most to us.


6. "Why can't I do this?"
In today's world where competition is at it greatest, and failures ready to take us in our arms that we often forget the basic question that why can't we do this? Why can't we achieve this? We are so afraid of failures that we forget that there is also victory that we can achieve. But in our constant fear we often fail and distant ourselves from our own dreams.

5. "Why my best friend cannot be my lover?"
In today's generation we are so influenced by Prince Charming and Dream Girls that we often forget to see the reality and keep ourselves away from all the happiness. We cannot accept that our own best friends can be our perfect life partners and thus keep ourselves waiting for that perfect love which are most often thrown away by our own hands.

4. "Why are we not are scared of our sins?"
Whether it's at work, life, friends, love... we often choose the option that we are most comfortable with and we don't pay attention to the fact that whether our choices are right or wrong? We don't think or care about all the sins we choose to do intentionally and unintentionally. and we keep doing things which we should not and not for once we get scared but we should.

3. "Why we dont have any time for our parents?"
We simply forgotten that how many years our parents had spend and sacrifices to help us grow and now when they needs us most and asks nothing in return except for little love and time but we even fail to provide that happily. It's nothing but shame and perhaps that shame itself keeps us away from asking this question to ourselves.

2. "Why our partner's love is not enough?"
We make millions of promises and take hundreds of oaths in front of god and society but still we fail to keep our promises and breaks their trust by cheating them. All the explanations we have are nothing but excuses and it's just that we are not good enough to make any promises and protect them. And that's why we cheat, break someone's heart and trust. And a weak person don't have guts to ask this tough question to themselves.

1. "Why can't I be a better person?"
We say everything about others, we talk about the whole world and every little flaws that present inside it but one thing we cannot do is to look inside our own self and find that what mistakes we do? what flaws do we have? what I need to do to make ourselves a better person? and we keep poking and interfering in other's life and never looks at our own.