35 & Desperate for an Orgasm

Dear Dr. Betty,

I am so happy to have come across this site as I am desperate for some help. I am a married 35 year old mother of 2 who has NEVER had an orgasm through ANY means. I have been to hypnotists and sex therapists and have every toy you could imagine but its just not happening. It takes me ages to get any sort of pleasure and then straight away it gets to sensitive and I have to stop. Even leaving it for a minute and going back doesnt work.

PLEASE HELP me. I feel robbed of my orgasm. My libido is very low but I have sex about 3 times a week as it is not fair to my husband.

My doctor did say that my testosterone levels were low, could this have something to do with no orgasm or loss of libido?? Thanks so much

Dear G,

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