Why I'm over engagements as signs of winning at life

Or, "Why Marriages Cannot Be End Goals (And The Ways We Still Convince Women They Are)", my latest essay at Thought Catalog. Yes, I've been writing a lot lately - another article will probably publish tonight and I'm researching and interviewing away. What's funny is that even though I am not a fan of the marriage industrial complex, I am as sappy and romantic as a person can get.