The Secret to Solving Problems Together

The LORD is my shepherd; I have everything I need. Psalm 23:1

Wouldn’t you like to provide comfort – truly abiding comfort – to each other? Truth is, you can. The key is found in focusing on what makes each of you feel emotionally safe. This is the secret to emotional connection and comfort, and here’s how it works.

Say your spouse feels most safe when he is gaining control of his time. This means that he’s going to feel most threatened when his time is being wasted. And if the two of you are t...